Archive for November 29, 2008

Quarter Life Crisis

Quarter-life Crisis?! what is it actually ? read below to know more….

It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn’t know and may not like. oh ok ..

You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. ah… scary!!!

You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren’t exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. hmmm… interesting.. keep reading…

What you don’t recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren’t really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you. oh really ? i thought they hated me …

You look at your job … and it is not even close to what you thought. You would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. i am currently jobless… wat i am working on also too is far from what i’ve been dreaming of or planning before… TRUE i am scared now!!! i am about to start a new leaf …. this is getting scarier …

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn’t. oh yea.. this is SO TRUE…

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. wat a life!!!

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can’t meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren’t a bad person. sound pathetic , huh ?!

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. un-certainty , indecisive .. fell like a fish out of water …this is how i felt now!!!!

You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself and while winning the race would be great, right now you’d just like to be a contender! i do hope i can and still hanging on …

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

do u ? anybody is having the same symphtom ? is this normal for a person in my age, i dont know… i dont know what i know …

November 29, 2008 at 6:53 pm 1 comment

Today is….

November 2008